chicken and the egg game, what came first, which preceeded what, what cause who, why did it happen, in this case, love and marriage, hand in hand, but things just do happen, and so it goes, but love, marriage, an expression of love, a commitment, in front of god, what is the history of marriage? when did it happen, become law, become a sacrament before god and man, when it make the letter for all those sadduccess, for all those of the priestly class, looking for reasons external to themselves, and so it goes, but otherwise, such things pass into the night, forgotten dreams and Truths, truths, falsities really, but yeah, that's the reason, the understanding, love brings marriage, marriage is but a social description, a social expression, the icing on the cake, but the cake itself is there, rose, baked in ovens, already made by the baker's loving hands.