growing, changing, left behind, and it's not just puberty, not just the change from elementary to junior high, from junior high to high school, to college, to post college, to separate teams, it keeps going. social circles open and close, accept and not reject, but close ranks, and not left behind, not watching while it moves forward, just that age old cliche, growing apart, and the common ground is gone, and what're you left with? what becomes the glue?