greener, always greener, it's the other side of the fence, the puppy dog in the window, buyer's remorse, any number of things, objects, states of being. it is as if obtaining possession alters the structure of the what is being obtained, or the observations of said obtained object or event or state of being. or not a reflection of the object obtained, but rather a reflection of the obtainer of the object. wherein the process of obtaining changes the obtainer. what kind of object orientation is this? why aren't things more cut and dried, that things make more sense?