weddings and marriages, joining of two people before god and man, holy matrimony, a long sought goal, a dream of peace and happiness, coming true for those around me, for friends and family, for those close to my heart, what some might say the culmination of life's search, the finding of your better half, or, as someone once told me, two dolphins circling in the ocean, ying to yang, light to dark, completeness and complimentary, getting it, seeing others with it, knowing others have it, watching people lose it, all around me.