i'm a driver, i'm a winner, things are going to change, i can feel it" i drove and i won up $60 at ho-chunk, all my friends combine for a loss of lots. but fun, enjoyable, good times especially late at night talks among boys speaking of "experiences" sharing ancedotes, sharing lives understandings are made, are understood but questions arise from those understandings 1)why if i'm so money, i'm still single? not just single but non experiencing? 2) friends' lives are gifts when shared to abuse that?