wedding singer go figure an Adam Sandler movie is a romantic comedy, th at works, at least for some of us. could i be so lucky someday, not necessarily to be stood up at my first wedding, but to eventually find that someone, the person to grow old with. you know who i'm talking about. that special someone, you just know. the soulmate, the yang to my ying, the white to my black, the cream to my coffee, my other half, the one where the little things are done right, where the things that matter to me, are the things that matter to her. with the same values, and beliefs, and understandings about life, with goals and visions that are compatible, while i'm at it, are the same, looking for a female me, but just enough to be different. could be sweet, thoughtful of others, yet has personal responsibilities, self sufficient and independent yet likes to hang with people, athletic, ultimate player, catholic, practicing, race doesn't matter although i've always been partial to caucasians, which will be another topic for musings, short hair, clean, personally hygenic, enjoys her family, believes in God, strong sense of self, or at least tries to, neat, creative, likes routines and spontenaity, believes all things have their place, everyone has a life to live, a role to play, might someday end up on a park bench, feeding the pigeons. now if i could find someone that i could place next to me on my park bench in my mind, then that would be the one, wouldn't it, that would be the one.